Monday, November 29, 2010

Thanksgiving Week Part One

The beginning of Thanksgiving week brought several visits from close family and friends!  Dad was thankful and gracious for each and every one of you that came by to say hello.  

Ralph and Rebecca came by to visit on Monday night.  Their regular visits have been enjoyed my Mom and Dad both.  Thank you both for thinking of them when you are in town.

Brandy and Gene Weinette came on Tuesday to visit, as did Paul and Harriett Schaub.  

Katherine Allison, (Alisa's friend from Tech & future "RN Extraordinaire") came to sit with Dad on Tuesday so that Mom could go to a couple of doctor's appointments of her own.  

That same day, Caleb, Alisa and Little Miss Snowflake arrived for their Thanksgiving week stay and Chuck arrived that evening with his 'weekly mail run' delivery.


The ladies of The First Christian Church created a Prayer Quilt for Dad.  Thank you!!  He was delighted!  Pictured are Sherrie Dunlap, Karen Caison, Linda Powell, Dian Souder, Shannon West, Deborah Canada and Nancy Adair.



More to come,
Dan's Dozen

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Happy Saturday!

HAPPY __________ to you all!

(choose one of the below)
a) Recover from the Turkey & Fixin's
b) College Gameday
c) Shop till you drop-it's the first Saturday of the Christmas season
d) all of the above


(shhhh! Papa, we're watching football!)


Someone was able to babysit while Caleb and Alisa headed to the Tech football game today.  We'll be back with a Thanksgiving Week Wrap-Up tomorrow.  Whew! It was a big week!


Sunday, November 21, 2010

Amarillo Globe News

The following story ran on the front page of Saturday morning's Amarillo Globe News:

Group Helps Hurt Farmer

We are so grateful for everyone who helped out!  The AGN did not mention everyone by name, but please know we are thankful for each of you!

Thank you Tommy Coleman, Rusty Strickland, Peter Harms, Chester Fowler, Arnulfo Garcia, Aurora Contreras, Aaron Contreras, Armondo Morales, Oscar Perez, Nicky Watts, Robert Watts, Lee Stegall, Nelson Stegall, George Soto, Jose Soto, Randy Langley, Jesse Garza, "Santos" Viesca and Abigail Garcia!


Kirby Campbell, again, thank you for capturing the memories and sharing them.

Family Celebrations!

Whew! Sorry it's been a full week since you've had any updates!

Here's a recap of last weekend:

Katherine Allison came and spent the night with Dan last weekend to help take care of him.  Chuck and Maria came over to play Mexican Train with him and Carrie came to sit with him on Sunday.  Derwin and Linda also came to visit.  All of these people pitched in so that Mom could:

Fly with Cash down to Houston and join Caleb, Alisa and baby Addison who had been hiding out in the Tremont Hotel in Galveston until Friday night, the night they all joined in a surprise party for my birthday.




Mom had thrown me off the trail by sending me on a wild goose chase for 4x4 gauze dressings, sold in bulk because she "couldn't find them in Lubbock."  All the while, she and Cash were on a plane and hiding out with Caleb, Alisa and Addison until Friday night.  Here's the recap:




Caleb, Alisa, Addison and Mom had to leave early on Saturday morning to get back to McKinney.  They checked out of the Tremont and then we all convened at Sunflower Bakery for breakfast.  (Yes, that is luggage for two days.)





They all headed back to McKinney, since Addison's baby dedication was Sunday morning at Prestonwood in Plano.  It was clearly the day of the 'big pink bow' for little girls at Prestonwood! ;)


Thank you to all who pitched in to make this weekend special for all of us! None of it could have happened without you.  Tom Hill, thank you for ordering those 4x4 dressings for Mom!

Until next time,
Abbey












Sunday, November 14, 2010

Thursday morning was full of doctor's appointments back at UMC Health Science Center.  Fortunately, Raider Ranch provides complimentary wheelchair transportation - so getting Dad back to UMC was a breeze.  Here's a picture of him and his swanky ride!


Dad had an appointment with Dr. Dumais, his ortho. surgeon.  Dr. Dumais ordered a set of x-rays to make sure everything is still set in the proper healing position.  This must be periodically checked since the pelvis has a bit of movement, even when you aren't walking or weight-baring.  Dad says his right leg is still numb and feels "dead."  Dr. Dumais explained that the nerves for that leg run right into where the ExFix is attached.  Hopefully, this numbness will subside when the ExFix is removed.  It could take 6-12 months for the nerve damage to heal.  Bones heal faster than nerves.   

Mom was able to stand in behind the glass and see the x-ray on the screen.  Her only thought on that- "Those screws are LOONNNNGGGGGG!"  Dr. Dumais reviewed the x-rays and thinks things are progressing as they should and another 6(ish) weeks in the ExFix.  

Dr. Dumais also explained that the fracture in his fibula is located halfway between the ankle and the knee.  Dr. Dumais said it is the kind of break you would see if the bone was hit directly or "straight on." Imagine being hit with a baseball bat in the shin.  

They also saw Dr. Simko.  She ordered a follow up CT to check on the internal healing.  She indicated that in prior scans there were large areas around the spleen that needed attention.  Therefore, she just wanted to make sure the bleeding issues with the spleen are resolving.  She remains very positive about this since his injuries severely limit his activity.

They have temporarily discontinued his Lovenox injections, but he remains on Coumadin.

Until next time,
Dan's Dozen

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Settling Back In...

Mom and Dad are settling back in at Raider Ranch after being discharged from UMC yesterday afternoon.

Dad was able to have his first (ever) Starbucks, since there is a Starbucks literally, downstairs from their apartment.  The choice: Carmel Macchiato.  More impressive, is that the price of the "Crackbucks" is included in their monthly rent!


Chuck and Maria headed to the "Ranch" for dinner tonight.  Lots of fun and laughter had by all...and of course, margaritas-- I mean, Chuckaritas.  

For all to see, below is the beloved ExFix.  

Until next time,
Dan's Dozen

Monday, November 8, 2010

The Great Lovenox Search

Jean Cudd is so sweet!  She was kind enough to help Mom get Dad transitioned back to Raider Ranch from the hospital today.  She sat with Dad while Mom embarked on a multi-hour, anti-coagulant search through the city of Lubbock.  The search eventually yielded the sought after Lovenox, but only after multiple pharmacies, a call back to the hospital, a call to the attending doctor, a discovery of "we can only release 4 days worth at a time,"  and a lesson in 90 mg Lovenox.  (For those of you following on Google, your search will tell you there isn't a 90 mg Lovenox. )  90 mg Lovenox really means "100 mg Lovenox, waste 10."

Mom also hit up the Target for some needed necessities and found this...


Yes, look closely.  That is Ensure in Buttered Pecan flavor.  Mrs. Creative is about to take those 800 calorie shakes to a whole new level!

Jan and Eddie also sent Mom a sweet plant to brighten her day!  Thank you!


Until next time,
Dan's Dozen



Heading Back to Raider Ranch!

See you later, alligator!

Dad is headed out of UMC today and back "home" to Raider Ranch.  He'll continue on his blood thinning regimen at home with two daily injections of Lovenox along with a once daily oral dose of Coumadin.

More to come later,
Dan's Dozen

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Blood Thinning and Therapy Dogs

Dad had some fun visitors this weekend as he waited for things to "thin" out.  Melanie came by to keep Mom company.  Carrie, Kelsey and Cameron popped in to say hello and a few of the Thompson's stopped by as well- Greg, Tucker, Travers and Titus-came by to liven things up and see how Dad was feeling on their way to the Tech game yesterday.  Ralph and Rebecca visited today just in time to also see the Therapy Dogs who stopped by the room to create a smile.  (apologies for "in motion" camera phone pictures)



Since Dad has been in the hospital, they have been monitoring his PT/INR levels.  PT stands for Prothrombin Time-which allows doctors to assess the ability of the blood to clot properly.  INR, on the other hand, stands for International Normalized Ratio.  The INR is used to evaluate how well anti-coagulants are working.  Yesterday, Dad's INR was 2.  The ideal range for patients who have basic "blood thinning needs" is 2.0 - 3.0.  The plan was to push a large dose of coumadin last night, reevaluate the INR and hopefully, release him back to Raider Ranch today.  However, this morning after they evaluated the INR, they did not feel comfortable releasing him today.  They will push another large dose of coumadin this evening and aim for tomorrow.  

That's all from the Raiderland hospital for tonight! A big thank-you to Tech for finally winning a game again! That makes everyone a bit happier around here! ;)

Until next time,
Dan's Dozen

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Anti-clotting and waiting....

Exciting stuff, this 'anti-clotting.'  Translation: Lay in the hospital on big gun anti-coagulants and wait.

The nurses on the 4th floor are exceptional!  Far above the 3rd floor.  (No pun intended.)  They came in, got Dad up and gave him a bath--without Mom having to ask.  They also rounded up the Speech Pathologist and Dietician to come in. PT and OT also stopped by -- all this morning!  Please be patient and understanding when phone calls and texts aren't answered right away-- Sometimes, there's just a lot going on! ;)

Dad has been having trouble swallowing, and therefore, eating.  Again, Ms. Creative, has managed to pack a whopping 800-850 calories into her "special shakes."  I'm pretty sure this involves throwing anything that packs calories and protein and resembles "Vanilla" into a blender.  It's working, so far, and she manages to keep enough of these down him to keep his daily intake up.  But, thinking ahead, she was afraid she wouldn't be successful at this for the entire duration, so she requested the Dietician's help--since they were laying in the hospital and all.  Ms. Creative divulged more shake secrets to the Dietician and apparently got an A+ in "High Calorie Shake Making."  They are also going to try some pureed foods in order to give some variety. 

The Speech Pathologist came by and performed another swallow study.  The issue with his eating has not been jaw pain--this would make it much easier to take the advice of all those who have gone before with a broken jaw.  The issue is swallowing.  When you don't feel like you can swallow, and when it hurts to swallow--it doesn't matter if your staring at eggs, oatmeal or soup. 

The verdict from the swallow study is that it is just going to take a long time (up to 3 months) for all of the reconstruction to heal in his mouth and jaw.  There is swelling and discomfort involved and it's just the nature of the beast. Mom also has requested an earlier follow up from the Otolaryngology department and will also be taking him to a highly-recommended dentist in town, to make sure that everything is "lined up" correctly and healing in the proper place. 

MeMa, Garland and Janelle and the Adair's came to visit today and while Dad rested, Mom took the crew to tour and lunch out at Raider Ranch.

That about sums up the day from Raiderland--
oh, except that Mom and Cash ran into that new "coach" we have out there on the football field, and it was all Mom could do not to ask him when he'd be leaving town. 

More to come later,
Dan's Dozen

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Back to the Hospital: A Little Tune-Up

Night before last, the nurse and Mom had noticed that Dad had spiked a low-grade fever.  When Mom helped him shower, she noticed his right leg was slightly warm.  Mom reassessed the situation yesterday morning and in addition to low-grade fever, his right leg was hot and "clammy."

Mom insisted that something wasn't right, and had the nurse call Accolade (our home-health agency).  Mom had the gut feeling that Dad was trying to throw a clot and stood by her gut feeling, despite the naysayers, who insisted it was just because of his fibula fracture.  One persistant wife and a couple of phone calls later, and Mr. Randy came by.  Accolade sent Randy over--with his handy, handheld doppler/ultrasound machine--and they were able to see that indeed there was a clot.  Actually, three clots.  (Randy also comes highly endorsed by Chuck, which doesn't hurt a bit either!)

One call to the orthopaedic surgeon and they were instructed to head to the UMC Emergency Room where they would admit him.  Chuck and Maria went with Mom and Dad and stayed with Mom while everything got settled.  He has been admitted into UMC and will stay there while they dissolve said clots with anti-coagulants.  Fortunately, Mom was right on top of the situation, therefore, the bloodflow had not been completely restricted. 

A bright note, when they entered last night, they asked Mom who she wanted Dad admitted to.  Chuck was standing nearby and without hesitation, responded, "Dr. Rice."  Since they are only temporarily residing in Lubbock, Dad doesn't have a primary care provider.  Dr. Rice is an internal medicine physician, and therefore, since they admitted him to Dr. Rice, Dr. Rice will be able to act as his 'PCP' while they are in Lubbock.  Dr. Rice also has priveledges over at Trustpoint, which will make things a bit more smooth when it comes time to transition over to the Rehab hospital. 

We'll keep you posted!
Dan's Dozen

We'll Make a Red Raider Out of Him After All!

Here's a little crash course lesson in hospitals, diagnosis codes, reimbursement and such:

Acute Care Hospitals: UMC, Covenant, Northwest Texas, Baptist-St. Anthony's  These are where you go when something happens to you. Example: You have a baby.

Long Term Acute Care (LTAC) hospital: Not available in every state, on almost every corner in Texas, to include hospitals such as Texas Specialty Hospital, Triumph Hospital, Cornerstone Hospital, Select Specialty Hospital   You are admitted to these hospitals after a stay in an acute care hospital, for an acute condition that needs longer treatment than is provided in an acute care hospital.  Example: You are admitted to General Hospital where you have your gall bladder removed.  You contract a hospital-acquired infection.  You will likely head to an LTAC where you will be for an extended amount of time for treatment of your hospital acquired infection with at least two IV antibiotics.
Rehab Hospital: Self explanatory, you go to these for Rehab.  There are cardiac rehab hospitals, physical rehab hospitals, etc.  Physical Rehab hospitals include: TIRR and Trustpoint  To be admitted into a Rehab hospital you must be able to participate in at least 3 hours of intensive, physical therapy per day.  Intensive, physical therapy is weight baring.

Nursing Home: Self explanatory, I believe.

Skilled Nursing Facility: A slight step above nursing home, although they are usually just a wing within a Nursing Home.  Commonly referred to as SNF, pronounced SNIFF.  Examples: The Plaza, Lakeside, etc. These provide higher care than a nursing home.  They have LVN's on staff, rather than the typical aides in a nursing home.  IV's and parenteral feeding are allowed, etc.

During the first week at UMC, before we were even out of the SICU, a social worker came by to discuss with Mom what the plan of action would be.  By "Plan of Action" I mean, where Dad would go after being discharged from UMC.  A rehab hospital would of course be in the plan. However, due to the extent of his injuries, he was not ready-and would not be immediately ready-for a rehab hospital.  Since he would still be in need of medical care, they recommended a skilled nursing facility.  I slapped on a smile, nodded at the social worker and accepted the list of SNF's. 

The next day, as Dad stepped down from the SICU unit to 3 West, Mom and I set out on a field trip to perform our "due diligence" of scoping out our SNF options.  Given Dad's age, mental capabilities and life at home to return to -- neither of us felt the SNF was a good option.  Mom was a bit discouraged after what we saw in the SNF's. (Understatement.) We did not feel that he would receive the care he would need in order to make a full recovery.   There would also be a premium fee of $'x'K for a private room and Mom would still need somewhere to stay while he was there.  Furthermore, after witnessing Mom take care of our great-grandmother in a nursing home, I was worried about the toll on her. 

The way I looked at it, we had two options: 1) Get him qualified for an LTAC to essentially buy him some inpatient healing time or 2) Essentially "piece together" the same care he would receive in a SNF and provide that in a private setting.

Long story short: I didn't think any of us were up for a battle with the invisible roommates such as acinetobacter sp. and pseudomonas that are common in an LTAC.  This road will be long enough without having to battle a hospital-acquired infection.  (Disclaimer: This was not a "slam" on LTACs, HAIs are just the nature of the beast.)

So, I spent the next morning on the phone with BC/BS of Texas.  The representative who helped me was precious, delightful and so very helpful.  I verified  benefits for home-health nursing, aides, PT, OT, equipment and so on and so on.  I wasn't quite sure how we were going to get "transportation" covered- ie to/from doctors appointments, etc--but, knew I could come up with something.

After I explained to Mom what would and would not be covered by BC/BS, I began looking for a handicap-accessible apartment.  The very first place I contacted was Raider Ranch.  They are a retirement community for 55 and older.  They were fantastic from the very first phone call.  An hour later, Mom and I embarked on another field trip--it had to be better than our first one. 

Here are the highlights of our field trip:

Staff-delightful!  Transportation via a wheelchair accessible van Tuesday through Thursday is included in the rent.  Monday and Friday transportation is a small fee-and by small, I mean a prorated portion of $25.

They were completely willing to accomodate us, even though they knew this would be "short term."  Their minimum lease agreement is usually one-year.  Even though she is too young to live there, they will allow Mom to live there since Dad will be there.  Their handicap-accessible apartment is fantastic.  And since it's their own apartment, friends and family may visit as they wish.

They have a full-time physical therapist on staff who serves as the Fitness Director.  Their fitness classes and equipment are diverse.  Mom will be able to use the facilities, train with the trainer, etc.  In addition, when she isn't with other clients or teaching classes, their Fitness Director can work with Dad to supplement the physical therapy and occupational therapy he is receiving. 

They receive a dining allowance for each of them--so, when Mom needs a break from cooking, they can head to the Dining Room.  Their dining allowances may also be used at the Starbucks or spa.  (No, I'm not kidding.)

They have an Assisted Living complex as well.  In the event that we needed those facilities, they would let us transfer. (That is not in the plan.)

Cable, internet and phone services are all included.  They have a 'Guest Suite' that is for rent in the event that family or friends want to come.

They have a social calendar that rivals that of a certain island I know--complete with Oktoberfest, fashion shows, concerts, games and so on. They are even pet-friendly!  Kitty can come to Raider Ranch!

We left there with the greatest sense of relief.  We headed back to the hospital and began pulling together the referrals we would need for services.  Mom and Cash headed out that afternoon to rent furniture and a washer and dryer for the apartment. Our goal was to have all of this in place so that it would be a smooth transition when they did decide to discharge him. 

Mission accomplished!  Raider Ranch met Mom at the hospital with their nifty wheelchair accessible van and they headed to their new "home" at Raider Ranch.  Ralph and Rebecca helped Mom transport everything between the hospital and Raider Ranch and then headed to Target to pick up a few things for Mom.  From what I understand, they even brought Mom a Keurig.  Thank you both for bringing them into the year of 2010 with that fabulous invention!  Ralph even hooked up the dryer for Mom.  They spent their first night in their "home away from home" and settled in. 

Several visitors have kept them company, laughing and entertained!  Caleb, Alisa and Addison visited for Halloween weekend.  The Bennetts drove down from Amarillo with their hysterical terrior, Dexter, and Larkin treated everyone to some amazing cupcakes. Chuck and Maria have continued to help Mom tremendously. 

Dad is still having quite a bit of trouble swallowing, therefore, eating is very challenging.  Ever the creative one, Mom has managed to pack 800 calories into a shake in order to keep his intake up.  The home health agency came to complete their assessment and have now started their services.  PT and OT have been coming to work with him and Mom reports that they are "just fabulous!"  The current plan is to stay at Raider Ranch until it is time to begin rehab.  At that point, they will either continue to stay at Raider Ranch and participate in intensive, outpatient Rehab, or he will go to Rehab at an inpatient Rehab hospital such as Trustpoint there in Lubbock. 

We cannot say enough great things about Raider Ranch!  They have truly welcomed us with open-arms and been understanding and accomodating of our situation. 

Their address at Raider Ranch is: 6548 43rd, #3201, Lubbock, TX 79407

Several have asked why they can't just go home to Wellington.  From the outside, it might seem that if one could go to a retirement community, you could just go home.  However, there are several factors that individually seem small.  But, combined together, just make things far too difficult.  His doctors and therapists are in Lubbock.  The variety of services he needs and will need are offered there in Lubbock.  Our house is far, far, far from handicap accessible.  Dad had a brief idea that Mom could just "set him up in the front room."  However, once he realized the front room did not have a toilet, roll-in shower or handicap-accessible sink among other things, he took that back.  He is not able to ride in a car seat.  He must be in a wheelchair for now, therefore, necessary transportation and relative ease of that transportation must be considered.  Pelvic fractures can prove to be fairly complicated, which means being in close proximity to major medical facilities in necessary. While these are just a small sampling of reasons they need to stay in Lubbock for now, the bottom line is that they will eventually be returning to Wellington upon a full-recovery! 

More to come later,
Dan's Dozen